This week I’ve joined a few groups for Urban Fantasy writers and fans. Doing my extrovert thing to do some bonding with others who write my genre. I used to have tons of UF writers–many of them bestsellers–as friends on Livejournal before my stalker made me withdraw from my connections.
I don’t talk about her anymore. Because that gives her attention although I doubt she’s paying any to me anymore, but that nut job cost me a lot of good friends because she started to hound them, which as busy authors they did not appreciate. Cutting off contact with them seemed like the best thing to do, but now I realize I probably shouldn’t have done that.
Oh well, it’s not as if they gave lessons in how to deal with obsessed internet stalkers when I was in school. Do they do that now? They probably should.